Powder Keg

Speak up!

An unexpected benefit resulting from mentoring men, those incarcerated as well as those who have been released, is establishing deep, personal relationships. I’ve been given the privilege of hearing their side of the story.

 A dear friend, a large Black man, we call each other “Brother”, whom I have mentored for quite a while, recently had a power keg experience. He has been out of prison for about ten years, married with a young child, successful businessman.

 My friend and his wife, along with twenty or so others of their friends, spouses, partners, attended a birthday party held downtown in a facility where others also were celebrating. One of the strangers touched the breast of the wife of one of my friends and pandemonium ensued.

 As you can expect, everyone headed for the door. The police showed up in force, sirens, lights, etc. My brother, who had nothing to do with the rumble, was tazored, knee on his neck, foot on his back, taken to jail and charged. In fact, my brother was the only one arrested and charged as a result of the incident.

 Every phone, camera and recorder was turned on as the police arrived. I’m confident my brother will be exonerated.

 We need to address prime causes and to help police handle these difficult situations in better ways.

 As for you and me, it is time for us to speak up!